Are we, who have been wounded by narcissistic abuse, simply no longer suited to adapt to a society where narcissistic behaviors have become the normal way to interact with others? Based on the concepts introduced in the last article on reality; if what we perceive determines what kind of reality we will experience, are we in some way responsible for lifting the veil on this sadistic and masochistic dynamic in relationships where we no longer see individuals for who they are, but rather a polarizing view of abuser and abused?